Will and Dan Neville-Rehbehn are baking up a storm to pay for surrogacy

First comes love. Then comes marriage. Then comes an online bake sale to pay for an egg donor, a surrogate and in vitro fertilization. In the kitchen of their snug, rented loft off U Street, Will and Dan Neville-Rehbehn, a married gay couple, are "baking for babies," as their Web site calls their efforts to raise the money they need to start a family .