Did a lesbian couple bully Christian innkeepers over the right to marry on their farm?

Dear Civilities: I am writing about the New York state couple who refused to allow a lesbian couple the use of their farm for their wedding. As a gay man who recently married, I'm troubled by this situation because I find that too many gay people who say they are being discriminated against are not willing to see that others have different beliefs and values, especially when it comes to marriage rights. In planning my own wedding, I only had one bad experience when a vendor said they would not c...