How to Make a Space "Ours" When It's Already Full of His Stuff? -- Good Questions

Pin it Q: I promise this isn't a relationship issue! I'm moving into my boyfriend's massive Harlem apartment. It's a big one bedroom with a spacious living room and lots of light. He has a ton of great art, furniture and... stuff. More stuff than he needs (he's a music photographer and he has a tendency to just acquire stuff). I don't want to force him to get rid of things (okay maybe some), but something about the place doesn't feel home-y enough to me. We have the same taste and have agreed to...