How stubborn are you? Can you indulge in it? Is it taking you down the right path? Whatever the case, it is leading you to where you either want or need to be. Both places are okay, but....how to continue the good story now? First by realizing what in it was good, even if it didn't look like it. That is growth, it can be brutal, but it brings us to a new space and it takes time to realize that...