Here's The Big Problem With The Idea Of 'Falling' In Love

When it happened to me for the first time, I was hit hard with feelings -- happiness, excitement, concern for another person that went deeper than anything I'd experienced before. Suddenly, my body felt light -- weightless, even. I was floating. I'd lost control, but I knew everything was going to be okay. Falling in love, I quickly realized, felt an awful lot like, well, falling. But what if love wasn't as passive as we tend to picture it being? What if -- instead of stumbling into it as a resu...