The moment I knew: my brother's voice was so clear in my head - 'This is the man you're going to marry'

After her brother's death, Mary-Anne O'Connor never thought she'd meet someone who could carry her grief. Then, at a 21st birthday party, Anthony walked through the door Get our weekend culture and lifestyle email My brother Matthew was the closest person in my world when I was 16 years old. He was 17 and we were part of the same social group, always off having adventures. He was incredibly wise for someone so young and he used to solve the problems of the world for me as we played one-on-one ba...